To be a good leader is a valuable skill no matter how old you are but not everyone has innate leadership qualities. Being a leader will help build your confidence and succeed in activities like group projects, team sports, clubs, etc. And these skills will only continue to benefit you as you grow older.
Practice improving on the qualities listed below in order to increase your leadership skills:
Self-confidence. “A leader who is self-assured without being overbearing instills self-confidence in team members.” Your self-confidence and calm demeanor can help others feel more certain that they, too, can overcome hurdles or reach a challenging goal.
Humility. When you’re willing to share credit with others, and you’re willing to admit that you’re not perfect, others see that and appreciate it.
Core self-evaluations. Research shows that four related self-perceptions relate to effective leadership: “self-esteem, locus of control [that is, taking responsibility for what happens in your life], self-efficacy [akin to self-confidence], and emotional stability”
Trustworthiness. People trust you when your attitudes, words, and motives align with what you actually choose to do. This includes being honest about mistakes, refusing to gossip and shift blame, and doing things the ethical way.
Authenticity. Be yourself, and act in line with your core values and personality. People will notice if you’re trying to be someone other than who you really are.
Extraversion. Most leaders maintain an outgoing demeanor, show an interest in people, and gladly participate in group or team activities. (Feel that you’re not naturally extroverted? You can work on your skills by making a conscious effort to demonstrate genuine curiosity about and friendliness toward others.)
Assertiveness. Be upfront about your needs, concerns, and opinions. However, don’t forget to be tactful!
Enthusiasm, optimism, and warmth. Staying positive, being approachable, and expressing positive thoughts and feelings through both verbal and nonverbal communication help you build rapport with those around you.
Sense of humor. Your ability to make people laugh can help others feel comfortable and relieve tense situations.